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because that's silly and a waste of time

Mean impish, nasty are not ok

honestly you don't need to force a specific personality at all

People dont really do that anymore i heard

12:25 AM

Ya

12:25 AM

We want positive thoughts directed to them

12:25 AM

They will develope positive traits

12:26 AM

They will surpruse you in a good way.

If anything, people use it to fill up space during dedicated forcing sessions.

They want you to like them.

12:26 AM

You can just discuss things you like

12:26 AM

Or go for a walk and tell them what interests you

12:27 AM

Hi vos

Small talk is hard for me, I just get stuck not knowing what to say

12:29 AM

I'd be like "how are you" "good"

12:29 AM

The end

#Yeah! My host never did anything like that, except telling me it was important to respect people. He just supported me and encouraged me and talked about lots of things. It really helped!

#

Mine changed their personalities more times than i can remember.

12:32 AM

Just read aloud, or whatever to them. You dont have to be good conversation

12:32 AM

In the behinning i was all... apple. Banana. Cat. Dog...

12:32 AM

Then we really got a feel for what was fun to talk about.

12:33 AM

We negotiated terms early

I'm a music person, would here be a way to somehow incorporate that into it?

yes

Yes! Play music

music can be great

It's kind of hard for me to think in my head during improvisation, but it'd probably be the most useful

Sing along. Just keep them in mind

12:34 AM

All you really have to do is think of them. No talk is really required.

It's hard for me to even put my mind on them

Instead of talking to yourself sometimes, just dorect the statement at them

I tried to start doing that at least 5 times today

It will get easy

Not once did it ever result in me actually saying anything

Then they will start initiating, or it will seem that way

Initiating?

@KydZombie it's really not as hard as you're making it

Bah talk is just one way

just think something at them

12:35 AM

do it right now

12:35 AM

anything

^

12:35 AM

seriously

tell them about how upset you are that you haven't been able to do it yet

They will surprise you

it'll feel wrong and like you're not doing anything for a while you literally just have to do it

Ya, chat to them, tell them you are having fun and are excited though

12:37 AM

Dont give them frusterated feelings, just relac, picture something about them

Listening to music and watching videos, would just imagining them sitting next to me work?

Or wonderland

12:37 AM

Yes

That I probably can do

Totally, that is passive forcing

12:38 AM

Gtg

Cya

12:41 AM

Wish it wasn't almost 9pm, I'd be able to try playing imaging my tulpa as my audience or something

12:42 AM

Probably could hop on guitar on piano then actually. Hmm..

12:42 AM

Dangit, I direct those kind of thoughts at discord instead of her and it's slowing the process

bruh

12:43 AM

you're worrying way too much

12:43 AM

just breathe

12:43 AM

Think about the tulpa

12:43 AM

And do something

I'm not worrying, I was saying that I could try to start making it more of a habit by incorporating it into something I do everyday

12:44 AM

And then I realized I shoulda just said that to her

12:45 AM

A weird thing about it though, is that after I repeated those things toward her, I said "should I hop on guitar or piano" and midway through I swear I had a thought fly through my head in something slightly different than my own answering the question

12:45 AM

Probably me though with how fast it was

Yes, presume anything out of the ordinary is her. Really you are trying to make the connection

12:48 AM

Tulpas are fully formed as soon as you can communicate, they just lack experiance

ye

I mean their intelligence

12:48 AM

Some say u r just trying to learn to listen

12:49 AM

They will try all kinds of stuff to get your attention

I've had this kind of thing happen multiple times now

Even like flashes and strange sounds

12:49 AM

Thats right, its them.

Don't assume that anything out of the blue is coming from your tulpa.

You will soon start to feel their presence

12:50 AM

Some guides say this, i agree you should

12:50 AM

Dont argue with vos though

The ones I've seen say that you should assume most reasonable things are from them

12:50 AM

But not completely random things

Some guides say assume everything is them, then 90% of time it is

12:51 AM

Hm.

12:51 AM

Its okay to presume both, wont hurt i think

12:51 AM

I m not as 1337 as vos

12:52 AM

Positive thoughts are important.

12:52 AM

Like the cat knocks over a vace, not them

The idea is to treat responses as if they're coming from a sentient tulpa, but not to assume that your tulpa is sentient just because of some stray/intrusive thought.

Maybe i read out of date guides. You may experiance stray hallucinations that you ordinarily wouldnt, can only assume it us them

12:54 AM

Gtg

Didn't you have to leave a while ago

Ya

12:55 AM

I just rembered, if a stray thought is negative, thats not them

12:55 AM

They wouldnt do that (edited)

12:56 AM

Your subconsious mind is a troll sometimes

12:56 AM

Mine will try to insult me or them sometimes.

12:57 AM

We have decided as a system to reject anything negative, then we clearly communicate if it was one of them Never is. (edited)

I would trend away from broad concrete statements like this, I think.

It's not impossible for a tulpa to make negative statements, Angry Bear.